Beyond the actual driving laws, there is an interesting kind of social networking at play, and it seems to suggest a possible research topic... one outside of my immediate area (anyhow, Derecho has me busy!), so I'll share it here in the hope that someone else might find the thought useful.
To set the stage, let me describe a few examples of what I'll call "implicit protocols" that drivers employ in these different areas. Even before giving examples, I should explain what I mean with this term. I have in mind situations where some actual communication occurs between drivers: we might look at each other and I might nod, meaning that I'm letting you pull in front of me on a crowded street. You could drift slightly towards my lane, and I might acknowledge that by slowing my car, just a hair, and this is enough for you to realize that you have my permission to shift lanes. The list goes on, and becomes pretty long. So, an implicit driving protocol is (1) a behavioral rule, familiar to the people who drive in the region, and (2) one that isn't automatically used; it has to somehow be requested, and acknowledged.
So here are some examples:
Example 1: In Israel, as far as I can tell, drivers almost never look behind themselves when shifting lanes (they do check in other situations, I'm talking her specifically about lane-to-lane movement). They seem to check behind them normally, but once they decide that a lane-change is needed, the decision of when to do that apparently is based on the 180 degree region sideways and in front, Once you get used to this you can easily understand intentions, but if you don't realize that they never check behind themselves, Israeli drivers often seem to be cutting you off because they will shift into your lane with inches to spare. The key point is that you, as the driver coming up from the rear, were supposed to realize "long ago" that the driver up ahead was planning to shift into your lane and leave room for that. If a driver seems to intend to change lanes and they don't (even with just inches to spare, as I said), you as the driver behind them are allowed to get impatient and honk the horn: "get on with it!". And then conversely, if they shift lanes and nearly crash into you, they will be angry at you if they think the rules made it quite clear that this is what they were doing. "You idiot, are you driving with your eyes closed?!! Anyone could see what I was doing!" They don't actually say stuff like that, by the way. I just mean that they are thinking it.
In fact the first time you drive in Tel Aviv you feel as if people break the law whenever they find it convenient to do so. But later you realize they actually have social rules for when to defy the laws, and even the city police respect those. Break the rules in a way that they don't normally consider appropriate, do something nobody should ever do, and I promise you: every driver in blocks around will lean on his or her horn instantly, and you just might find that the local policeman wants to chat, too! (There is also a whole protocol around weird rude behavior, like stopping your car in a way the blocks the entire street and then hanging out and smoking a cigarette because you are waiting for your cousin to come down from the fifth floor, but she's elderly and slow and it might take five minutes, during which every single car will be honking non-stop... because after all, if you don't wait for her right at that spot, well, you might have to drive around the block, or she might have to stand there... but let's not even go there!)
Example 2: In Belgium, the whole country uses a rule called "Priority a Droit". You didn't know it, but probably you are familiar with priority-to-the-left rule, and a good way to understand it is to start by thinking about a round-about (a traffic circle). Suppose someone wants to get into the circle, and you are driving around the circle. Priority to the left is the usual rule: the driver in the circle has the right to keep driving, and the one who wants to enter has to wait for a free slot. As you can imagine, the traffic circle deadlocks with priority to the right ("a droit" in French) because new cars can enter in priority over cars wishing to exit. (Fun fact: for historical reasons rooted deep in the past, France has two major traffic circles that actually use priority a droit, namely the ones at the Etoile and at Place Victor Hugo. I've seen them get deadlocked and stay that way for hours, literally hours. The identical cars just sit there... forever. Very interesting for me as a computer scientist!)
I'll toss out an example 2-a but this is a minor one: They have a ton of traffic circles, in fact, all over Europe. And there often are two lanes. How will they be used? Well, the rule is to use the inner lane if you will exit two or more exits from here, but be in the outer lane if this next exit is where you will leave the circle. All the drivers let you do this, if you know the rule and follow the rule. But tourists often get it wrong, and cause fend-benders.
But enough about traffic circles. Let's get to the real example 2. So, here's the actual issue for Belgium. It turns out that in Belgium, a great many small streets lack any kind of stop sign or traffic lights on the corners. So you are driving on a street, maybe even a nice large road, 2 lanes in each direction, and in comes this dinky little street from the right with no markings on the intersection, and in fact the little thing could almost be a driveway, it looks so dubious as far as streetness goes.
In the US, without question, you would assume that you on the main road have priority over the little road coming in from the right. And actually, legally, you do have priority: we use a priority to the left rule in this situation, like on normal traffic circles. So when an intersection is unmarked, the car to the left gets to drive directly through, and the car to the right must stop, check that the left is clear, and only then can advance into the intersection.
In Belgium, the rule is actually the opposite: dinky or not, the driver on that little alley has priority over the vehicles on the main 2-lane road if the intersection is unmarked, unless they tell you that you are on a "route prioritaire", which literally means "a road with priority over incoming traffic". So everyone on the main road is guaranteed to tap the brakes at every intersection. As the driver behind such a car you could crash right into them by not realizing they are forced to do this, and for that matter if you were that clueless, you could easily drive through without checking to the right, causing a major accident. As it happens, this rule also gets used in the south of Europe quite often, so do make sure to understand it if you plan to drive there.
Where is the implicit protocol? Partly, of course, the protocol is the legal rule. But beyond that there is also this question of whether you are too far into the intersection to slow down and yield. So there is still an exchange of context between you and the other driver that takes place: a form of communication that might be eye to eye, or might relate to how you drive your car. But information is conveyed and helps you know if the guy coming in is ok with you passing even though he has priority, or if he is unaware of you, or deeply committed, in which case, slam on your brakes my friend!
Example 3: In the area around New York and especially in the city itself, cars collaborate "school of fish" style to maximize throughput on streets that happen to have slightly coordinated traffic lights, such as the main north/south avenues that run for miles from the top of Manhattan to the bottom. So on these, all the drivers are implicitly in agreement that the plan is to get as far as possible before stopping for the next red light, and with this in mind, they need to shift lanes and otherwise coordinate much like fish in a school of fish. The car density might be very high, and yet the cars try to flow around obstacles, which are unfortunately common in New York City: gaping holes in the pavement where work on a steam pipe is underway, perhaps with fencing around the hole, perhaps just a big hole; steel plates that look unstable, maybe a homeless person pushing a shopping cart of stuff across the street right at that moment. The cars just all flow, seamlessly.
When you understand this it feels like a kind of dancing: a ballet of cars, and especially of taxi cars because there are additional complications: the taxi drivers all drive "correctly" but people from out of town on these roads are treated kind of like potholes: the taxis are very wary around them because they know that those drivers are clueless and might do stupid (or inefficient) things. But there is a form of implicit communication here too: very quickly, I find that I'm in sync with the taxi and other drivers around me: I'm not in a yellow cab, yet the school of cabs accepts me. It isn't an eye-to-eye thing: it just comes to the rules you are following.
I could definitely extend this list: Switzerland has its own style (absurdly, excessively, polite and respectful of the rules, plus: "tous qui n'est pas interdit est obligatoire", meaning that "If it isn't illegal, it is obligatory"). California has its own style. The style in Mexico can be rather creative.
The computer science puzzle: Ok, hopefully we're on the same page now. As you can see, by driving in all of these different settings in a short amount of time, I've had to repeatedly adapt my meta-driving-protocol: I've had to shift to different implicit protocols, so that I would behave as expected from the point of view of all those others on the road. Make the shift and you drive more safely and efficiently; fail to make it, and horns blare at you from all directions!
But how am I doing this? And how did I figure out the rules in Tel Aviv, which is a new environment for me? Or other such places?
I'll postulate that first of all, humans have explicit and implicit ways to communicate. We talk, but we also communicate eye-to-eye through glances and little nods, and through behavior like when your car drifts just a little to the right or left while in motion in a way that "makes sense" under the local implicit driving rules. So we send information through a dozen little "tells", as a poker player might express the idea, and this is often a two-way thing or even an n-way thing, as in the case of schools of drivers on heading south on 2nd Avenue in New York.
Next, the rules that matter on roadways are discoverable: a person who drives well and doesn't get stressed easily can learn these rules very quickly. How? I have no idea: I'm not adept at languages (I know like five words of Hebrew by now, a bit less than two words per month for the past three months: not impressive!) But somehow these implicit protocols are so evident that they are just totally obvious once you settle into the situation, and you develop hypotheses and quickly validate them.
The means of dynamic discovery is also incredibly robust: we can learn these rules even though perhaps half or more of the drivers aren't using them at all, or not using them properly. We can learn which cars "get it" and which ones don't, and then we as a school of cars can all cooperate to shun the ones that are clueless. In fact you can figure out that the guy driving that SUV is clueless, and even though you are way up ahead of me, I'll realize this too, and will route around the SUV too, because I've learned something from you. And yet I can't see you, don't know you. Somehow you communicate this knowledge through your behavior! And I somehow deduce it from that behavior.
Why does all this matter? Here's why. First, I think this represents a kind of exciting topic for research in social networks. I bet that if you plan to come to do a PhD at Cornell and knock on Jon Kleinberg's door, you could even talk him into working on this with you. (The topic is more his kind of thing than mine). So do that! We always need more brilliant PhD students.
And the second reason is that self-driving cars will never be safe until we understand this aspect of human behavior. Obviously, if you follow these blog postings of mine, you'll know that I've become very worried about self-driving cars (check out that tag if you missed my prior comments on this). But setting that stuff to the side, the situation we have is that Uber and others want to create self-driving taxis that will be safe in New York, and in California too, and Tel Aviv, and Brussels. Well, good luck to them on this if they don't figure this stuff out! I myself will try to opt out for as long as possible.
And in case you are wondering, I'm still driving standard shifts, as much as possible. Of course I can drive an automatic. But I just don't trust those automatic shifting systems...